I have to go to school. I do not want to go to school: what to do - useful tips for students and their parents

Sometimes a child experiences situations when it is absolutely impossible, or maybe you just don’t feel like going to school. But what about adamant parents? Let's find out a few ways to persuade mom not to go to school and convince her believable enough.

10 ways to beg your mom not to go to school

Of course, so that the lies would not be revealed sooner or later, they should not be simulated regularly using the same method. If for the first time it worked, and it was possible to force my mother not to go to school, then the next time it would turn out otherwise in spite:

The easiest and most effective way for excellent students is to appeal to the voice of the mind of the mother, who will understand the child who has not prepared for the control for a number of reasons. It is better not to spoil the grades and stay at home, but on the condition that the material will be learned on the same day.
If you don’t know how to ask your mother not to go to school, and she is adamant about this matter - hide your apartment keys in her bag. When mom is already far away / at work, call and ask if she accidentally captured a bunch of others. A day at home is provided.
A good way, but if you do not apply it with enviable regularity, make the thermometer show a high temperature. But do not overdo it - 41-42 ° C will be overkill. To do this, you need to complain about feeling unwell and imperceptibly, when measuring the temperature, dip the thermometer in warm tea. For those who have a dog at home - it will be a godsend. When rectally measured in an animal, the thermometer always shows above 38 ° C.
You can get high temperature and then you need to be prepared to sit on the toilet. You can chew the lead of a simple pencil or drink a third of a teaspoon of iodine with sugar and warm water. After it is better to be safe with activated carbon.
When you don’t feel like going to classes, imitate painful cramps in your stomach. “What if it’s poisoning or appendicitis?” Mom decides, will regret her child, leaving her at home under supervision.
The same poisoning can be played out quite reliably - two fingers to the root of the tongue and because of the hamburger “eaten the day before” it is guaranteed.
Not all parents are "led" to the disease. After all, they themselves were schoolchildren, and probably skipped classes. In this case, you can try the story about the tour. Hurry up, get ready quickly, as if you are late for the sightseeing bus. And after half an hour, come back with an unfortunate face, saying that you are still late.
You can go to school and return home after an hour, notifying your parents that heating has erupted in the middle of winter and, of course, the children were allowed to go home. If mom is not used to calling teachers right away, then such an excuse will go off with a bang.
The topic with in-depth physical examination is not known to everyone, and therefore relevant. For example - today only junior / senior classes, or girls / boys, and the rest are at home that day.
This method is for those who have a mom at home today. Just wake up a little earlier than the alarm and quietly turn it off. Everyone will be able to sleep well on a weekend, and no one will be to blame, except for the alarm itself.

Skipping school can be quite difficult. If you are going to pretend to be sick, then a day off from school will require you to prepare and considerable acting skills. Even if you miss classes for a good reason, missed tasks will accumulate. But there are days when there is absolutely no strength to go to school! It is for such cases that our tips on how to convince parents to leave you at home will come in handy for real or imaginary reasons.

Pretend

Stay home if you survived some shock

For example, if you recently lost a family member, friend, or other person with whom you were close, your grief is a good reason to stay home and not go to school. Be honest with your parents about how much the loss has affected you.

If the tragedy befell you, but not your parents, you might think that it will be difficult for them to understand you. Grief is a universal feeling, and most people can put themselves in your place and give you time to survive the loss.
However, you should understand that the period of sadness must someday end. Intense sadness can last quite a while, and it can be difficult for you to get out of this situation yourself. If you feel that after a few days to a week you still cannot go to school, you should talk to a psychologist and ask him to help you survive your grief.

Be honest if you are bullied at school

If you are the victim of an abuser or group of abusers at school, tell your parents or other close people about it. Explain how difficult your school life has become as a result of bullying, and ask that you be allowed to stay out of school for a day or two until everything settles down.

Many students make the mistake of being silent about being intimidated. You may be worried that you will be considered weak, called a “rag” or that you can aggravate everything if you talk about it. Nothing will get better if you do not take steps to get rid of bullying, and during your teenage years asking for help from parents, teachers and other adults is one of the most effective ways to stop bullying.
Bullying can have a long-term effect, for example, causing anxiety, depression, or insomnia. Take care of your future by talking about bullying, if any.

Ask to skip studies

Tell mom and dad that you want to spend a special day with them and let them take time off from work. This plan may work especially if you are about to finish school and go to a higher education institution in another city, or if it will be an easy working day for you and your parents (for example, you do not have any control tasks and your parents do not have urgent tasks at work )

Get Permission for Psychological Health Day

It is important to talk with parents about anxiety and stress. Adults often forget how difficult school life is, although, in fact, the level of stress during school is quite high. If you are experiencing the usual stress associated with school, it may be more useful for you to deal with it and go through everything. If stress, anxiety, and depression become more serious problems, tell one of your parents or a psychologist about this and ask for a day without school.

If you suspect that you may develop serious mental health problems, such as depression or anxiety disorder, ask your parents to schedule an appointment with your doctor. This can be a signal of the seriousness of your problem for parents, and if you still have some kind of disorder, then going to the doctor will help you monitor your condition.

Stay home if weather or environmental conditions require it

In the event of a severe storm, flood, or other circumstances that make the road to school dangerous, your school may close for a while. If the weather is dangerous, but the school doesn’t close for some reason, it’s best for you to stay home early.

Typically, parents or educators will help you determine how severe the weather is in order to stay at home, so you may not have to convince anyone of anything. If your parents stay at home due to the weather, they will be more willing to leave you at home.

Specially late

Include some delays in your morning routine, complete your morning routine a few minutes later so you don’t have the opportunity to arrive at school on time.

Dress very slowly. Have a good breakfast so you have to change clothes. Dress again ... very slowly.
Pretend that you cannot find something you need, for example, one boot or a sports uniform. Find it in the end, but let it take you 5-10 minutes.
Loudly complain that you have a bad day; let a tear go if necessary. If you are lucky, the parent will sympathize with you and allow you to stay at home.
Understand that your being late also affects others, for example, your parents, who must be at work on time. Recognize that you are putting their work at risk, and decide if the school pass is worth it.

Skip the bus

The fact that you miss the bus may be an accident, or it may become a plan. In any case, if you miss the bus, you may not get to school if your parents leave for work early in the morning or if they don’t have time to give you a lift to school.
Come to the bus stop just when the bus leaves. You don’t want your plan to skip the bus looking too obvious. However, you should go home from the stop after you missed the bus long enough. If you are lucky, your parents will not have time to drive you to school by the time you get home.
If your parents will be gone when you miss the bus, do not forget to inform them of this after the moment when it will be too late for you to return. You should sound a little disappointed that you are missing classes so that your parents do not suspect that you were specially late for the bus. You can mention, for example, that you are sorry to skip a really cool experiment that was supposed to take place in a chemistry, physics or biology class.
If one of your parents still stays at home after you miss the bus, he may suggest that you be taken to school on the way to work. Act out a scene about how you don't want your parent to be late for work. Tell him that you are prepared for the consequences that may result from your being late, but you do not want your being late to affect your parent's work. However, do not push too hard. It can be very easy for your parents to recognize a lie.

Lose a thing

You can't go to school without textbooks or a flash drive with homework, right? Search everywhere. The more clutter that usually reigns in your home, the easier it will be for you to drag out the time of your searches to be late for school.

The smaller the item, the easier it is to “lose” it. For example, it will be difficult for your mother to believe that you have lost your backpack or laptop.
The more important the subject, the more plausible your absenteeism will look if you do not find it. The loss of glasses or contact lenses, for example, is more important than the loss of a notebook, as it will affect your learning opportunities throughout the day (and depending on how poor your vision is, it may also affect will you come across things).
If you yourself get to school by car, you may lose your keys. However, if this becomes your habit, the consequences may be bad (for example, your parents may not allow you to go to school by car and force you to get there by bus).

Making documentary evidence

Encourage your parents or guardian to call the school.This is a standard procedure. Your parents or guardian will have to call the school and explain that you cannot come.
- Most schools will have enough call from their parents or guardian. In schools with stricter rules, however, you will have to resort to official release, so you need to clarify the school rules. The essence of this practice is to reduce the number of unjustified absences and keep a record of diseases.
Call the school yourself if allowed.In most educational institutions, it is necessary that the student’s parents or guardians call, regardless of their age, but in some schools the student is allowed to make calls.
Get help from a doctor.If you have a long illness, your school may require a doctor’s certificate from you, your parents, guardians, or other family members stating that you are really sick and need time to recover.
- A certificate from a pediatrician or therapist will be required if your illness is delayed beyond a certain time. The exact time may vary depending on the school, so you should look at the school rules to know at what stage the medical certificate becomes mandatory. This time usually varies from 3 to 10 days, 10 days is usually more common.

Typically school "excuses"

You can warn parents in advance that your class will have an excursion, a hike, a competition, an olympiad tomorrow, in which you do not want to participate or cannot, because you are ill, they did not take you, etc.
In the end, be late, do not let you go to school, class, excursion, competition.
Let the teachers themselves “fall ill”, or “send” them to the teacher’s competition. It helps!
Duty is a wonderful way out of a situation where you do not know what to think of. Indignant that they forced everyone to wash, to fight once again. Are you a janitor or something?
In our age of technology, every student has a mobile. After the first lesson, tell the teacher that my mother called and asked to urgently pick up her younger sister (brother) from kindergarten, because she (he) has a high temperature. Mom cannot leave work, dad is also very busy, and grandmother lives in another city. Therefore, today you will be looking after a sick child.
You hide your backpack at school, and when the lesson starts, you are outraged loudly and shout that the backpack with all the textbooks and notebooks has disappeared, and you assume where you could hide it. You leave to look and you come to the end of the lesson. Do not forget to lightly stain your backpack to say that you found it in the stadium or in the cleaning room. The main thing is to make a very upset look.
Come with a finger (or fingers) rewound with a bandage and say that you knocked them out while playing basketball (volleyball). Knocked out fingers are very swollen and sore. Thus, you can not write a whole week, but it will not save you from verbal answers.
Sit all night at the computer. In the morning your eyes will turn red and swollen. Come to the teacher with a sad look and say that you feel very bad, your head hurts and your throat is tickling. Your appearance will be a confirmation of this. If you are sent to a medical center and it turns out that there is no temperature, then tell the nurse that your temperature rises very rarely above 37, but you feel that you are getting sick.
You can also go to school and return in 15-20 minutes, telling your parents that the school has broken through heating, there is a cold in the classrooms, repairs are being carried out and everyone has been allowed to go home.
Or say that the school has a medical examination of all students. Doctors said that today they examine only girls (or only boys), or only grades 1-4, and the rest were allowed to go home.
You need to get up in the morning and calmly get ready for school, as if nothing had happened. And even leave home. But you don’t need to come to school at the same time, and you don’t need to catch the eye of classmates (if they are not in the subject). Surrender with all the giblets, they are! How to spend time - decide for yourself. We don’t recommend sitting in the doorways, but doing something useful, such as visiting a movie room and cafe with a couple of friends, is always a pleasure. And do not try to arrange a party at home! Neighbors in the evening to their parents may inadvertently blur out that you had a noisy situation and then an extremely unpleasant conversation awaits you. The consequences can be tremendous, up to bringing you hand to the doorstep of the school within six months, which will madly amuse everyone around you, except yourself, of course.
What absenteeism can bring pleasure?The one whose parents are to blame. It does not always work and is not suitable for everyone. It is required that the parents leave for work earlier than you get up to school and that there is a lock in the door that opens and closes only with a key. In the evening, you need to slowly say that you have lost the keys to the house. So that your parents seem to hear you, but seemingly not. In the morning, sleep soundly until they leave and lock the door with your key. Then, after about 30 minutes, call mom and say in a panic that you are already late, and you were closed, and you warned in the evening that you had lost your key! It is necessary to have a little more fun, fuck, sigh. Usually parents are in no hurry to return home to unlock the student. And now, in front of you is waiting for a whole day of rest at home legally! And you are almost not even to blame for what happened.
If not a single method rolls, then you really need to get sick. What is needed for this: we wash, do not wipe ourselves, go out to the balcony or to any cool place, stand for five to ten to fifteen minutes, depending on the temperature “overboard”, our own endurance and the degree of suspicion of our parents. Tonight, most likely, my throat will begin to hurt, and tomorrow morning you’ll even have a look at the temperature.
Of course, you can “screw up” on the pavement or “cripple” at a physical education lesson, but lounging with a real broken leg seems to be of little interest.

My head hurts, my throat hurts, my stomach, I had to go to the doctor to check my eyesight, to the dentist, to the pediatrician for an annual examination, but you never can think of anything!))

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yes yes leg hand head belly throat all together !!

well, try "tuck your foot." though there is a risk that they will be sent to the doctor.
A small make-up like “bruises under the eyes” and a pale tonic and to the teacher - “oh, I feel so bad, I’m really sick. Maybe I was poisoned by something? So yesterday we bought smoked fish, maybe it was stale? “And a pen to the throat.” Parents can do the same thing - a moaning voice from the toilet, only a more real reason.

nadia Tarapata

Ahaha, it’s easy here, we take a thermometer and measure the temperature, and when your parents move away with a blunt end, tap your hand several times and the temperature rises (but only with mercury it will drain)) ahah

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i remembered my childhood, I personally got up specifically at 5 in the morning, and while the rodakas were sleeping, I took kefir from the refrigerator, drank it, and ate walnuts, I ate everything that was eaten and everything, literally a couple of hours later I was very hard on the toilet I stayed for about an hour, I didn’t go to school like that 🙂 advice don’t do it very often, because they burn you up constantly before school), once my father burned me, he understood something was wrong понял he woke up early and saw that I had gone into the kitchen and I’m starting to eat anything, oh I remember my ass was red, sit down it hurt 🙂 in general, good luck fantasize,

Warnings

Face the real reason. Ask yourself why you do not want to go to school. If you want to hide from the offender or avoid another serious problem, you should better look for solutions to the problem, and not run away from it. It will make your life happier and healthier in the future.
Do not skip school. Go through all the options your school provides for missing students. If you skip school without a reason or call from your parents, you will be considered truant and you may have serious problems as a result.
Find out what you are missing. In some subjects, it will be more difficult for you to catch up with the class than in others. Before you stay at home and not go to school, you should think about how difficult it will be for you to catch up with the class when you return, and also to determine whether it is worth missing the studies. This is especially important if you are pretending to be sick or staying home for a reason that is not very important.
Consider the consequences. You can stay at home for a real reason or pretend to be sick if you do not have such a real reason for missing. In any case, skipping one or more school days can complicate your life in the future.

From this article you will learn:

Today, finally, we will solve the question that depresses all students (especially in the mornings): what to do if you do not want to go to school, but you still need to go? Everyone has their own reason for this, and it is necessary to begin first of all with her awareness. If reluctance is due to an elementary desire to sleep longer - this is one thing. If the matter is in relations with teachers or other schoolchildren, this is already a rather serious problem, which must be solved. Useful tips on how to resolve this or that situation will reduce the anxiety threshold for both students and their parents.

Elemental fatigue

Cause. Everyday life is a cycle of actions that are usually scheduled literally in minutes: 7.00 - up, 8.00 - school, 14.00 - lunch, 15.00 - computer, 17.00 - lessons, 19.00 - walk, etc. A simplified scheme, which each has its own . And no matter how many rest periods are in this schedule, cycling still implies ultimately fatigue from monotonously performed actions.

What to do?

Advice to parents: give your child a "legal" day off. If he practically does not miss school, he may not want to go there simply because of elementary fatigue.

Advice to students: if the reason is this, of course, it is difficult to explain to the ancestors that you just need to relax. Then try to change something on your own. Change the schedule of your day. Get up 15 minutes earlier and do morning exercises. It will not hurt boys to pump the press, and girls to make the waist more elegant. Swap the walk and seat near the TV / computer. Before going to bed, do not sit on gadgets, but read something light and unobtrusive.

This is the simplest problem when a child does not want to go to school: what to do in such a situation, we have figured out. All other situations already can not be solved so simply.

Helpful advice. To remove the fatigue syndrome from school, you need to go somewhere on the weekend: go skiing, take a walk in the park, visit the attractions, etc.

Conflicts

A child often tells parents: "I do not want to go to school!" What to do in a situation where this is obviously not due to fatigue? The most common cause and, alas, difficult to solve, are conflicts. Firstly, far from all admit it, so as not to seem humiliated once again and offended. Secondly, often everything goes so far that only a professional psychologist can clear the formed lump.

With classmates

Problem. Children are cruel, especially teenagers. They have their own view on literally everything: school, clothes, teachers, the entire educational process. They can mock peers for various reasons:

he does not have an iPhone and social media accounts;
he dresses poorly and unfashionably;
he is closed and non-communicative, lives in his own world;
he does not study well;
he has flaws in appearance (protruding ears, big mouth, long arms - any defect can become a cause of ridicule), etc.

Result: because of ridicule and bullying, the child does not want to go to school, he develops various internal complexes.

What to do? Try to understand the reason for this attitude of classmates. Due to poverty and lack of iPhone? The price to such friends is worthless - do not bother to win the friendship of such people. Surely in parallel classes there is someone with the same level of income: you need to unite and give a decent rebuff to offenders. Learning problems? So this is a great reason to pull up all your tails. Believe me: any problem can be solved - you just need to want it.

Advice to parents: you are most likely to be the last to know about your child’s problems with classmates. That is why you need to constantly keep your finger on the pulse: does he communicate with peers in social networks? Does he go for a walk with them? Does your relationship with them tell you? But what does the class teacher say about this? If the problem is not solved 2 months after you started solving this problem, seriously think about changing the school, but do not forget to ask the views of the teenager.

With teachers

Problem. If the student and teacher do not have the same temperament or outlook on life, this may result in some confrontation. A powerful, authoritarian teacher, accustomed to screaming, can suppress a melancholic person, and in the morning he will repeat with tears in his eyes: “I do not want to go to school!” A mirror situation may also arise: an amorphous, calm, overly calm teacher will not be able to pick up a quick fidget and a ringleader. This leads to problems with learning and academic performance.

What to do? In fact, you must remember first of all that any teacher is a person. You can always talk with him, find some kind of approach. Surely he also dislikes the current situation, and he will be away to settle everything together. If you are already faced with the real Medusa Gorgon (there are practically no such people in the modern school), you can always solve the problem with the class teacher, school psychologist or even the head teacher. If you tell them that the child does not want to go to school because of a conflict with the teacher, resolving this conflict node is primarily in their interests.

On a note. Try to look at the teacher not as a merciless Cerberus, but as someone’s wife, mother, sister, girlfriend ... Imagine how hard it is for her - this will fundamentally change not only your attitude to her, but also your relationship with each other.

Other reasons

And a few more reasons for not wanting to go to school and ways to solve them.

Problems of a personal nature: do not want to go to school, because the subject of your love does not reciprocate with you? Inseparable love you just need to get sick or go ahead and achieve what you want. Useful tips on this subject can be found (for boys) and (for girls).
Reluctance to attend classes is often dictated by problems in the family: parents get divorced, or do not understand, or disappear forever at work, a new family member has appeared, etc. This problem can not be solved by moving to another school - you have to solve everything in a narrow family circle.
Very often I don’t want to go to school because of the elementary fear that they will ask the board, give a bad mark, organize a difficult control ... What to do in this situation? Let go of fear and understand that the world will not collapse if today you get a three instead of a five. It can always be fixed. If you are afraid of such basic things, you definitely won’t become superheroes of this world.

And finally, as a bonus, we will consider the last and most-most frequent reason why I don’t want to go to school so much - this is elementary laziness. Surely in the evening I had to sit in my favorite game or in social networks after midnight, and I didn’t feel like getting up in the morning at 7.00. Or so: yesterday we walked with friends for a good half of the day and did not learn one or even several lessons - and now it’s scary that they will ask and put a deuce. Or so: you would lie in a comfortable bed today, with your favorite tablet, drinking a cup of tea with buns, and then you need to wear a nasty uniform, sit for 6-7 lessons, strain your brain ...

Familiar situations? If you do not want to go to school for this very reason, no one but yourself will force you to do this. Pull yourself together, cultivate your willpower - and go! Prove to yourself and everyone around you that you can do it!

Steps

Part 1

Pretend

Plan everything ahead of time. It is more likely that your parents will believe you when you get up in the morning and say that you feel bad if you prepare the ground the previous evening.

The sooner you begin to portray the disease, the more time you will have to show the deterioration of your condition. Show a little fatigue the night before. For example, instead of walking down the street after school, stay at home and lie in your room.
Be sluggish in the presence of parents. They should give the impression that you are tired and you have no strength. In the evening, do not stick to your usual routine. If you watch TV, then lie down and do not show interest in anything. You should also go to bed earlier and make sure your parents notice this.
Add to the idea of \u200b\u200bfire - eat very little at dinner or try to eat something, but grab hold of your stomach as if you were in sharp pain. Say you are not well. Naturally, discard the dessert. You can also ask your parents to give you hot tea to calm your stomach.
Tell your parents that your classmate was sick at school or that a friend missed school. Make sure this is a friend your parents don’t know. This information will add fuel to the fire.

Show symptoms. Outwardly visible symptoms, such as a rash, are difficult to depict convincingly, so in most cases you should show external signs of internal pain.

Be unobtrusive but convincing. One of the grossest mistakes is replaying. If you act out your imaginary illness too dramatically, your parents may catch the fake.
- It’s best to act out a simple malaise, instead of pretending that you have some kind of illness that needs proof. Trying to make a vomit sound can be quite risky, as your parents can catch you on a lie. Similarly, if you want to play the heat and dip the thermometer into something hot, it can come out sideways to you.
- Do not protest too much when your parents suggest you not go to school. It may seem to you that acting out worries about a missed lesson may look more convincing, and too strong a desire to stay at home may cause suspicion. But do not forget that if you really felt as terrible as you were playing, your parents would not have to convince you to stay home. Do not hesitate before agreeing, but do not act as if you are too worried about missing out, especially if this concern does not fit your role.
Do not recover too quickly. Never forget that your parents can take you to school later if they realize that you have recovered or that you were pretending to be. If you want to skip school by playing a disease, you should support this imaginary disease throughout your school day.
- You should recover gradually throughout the day. Rest and be relaxed. By lunchtime, you can mention that you are starting to feel better, but you have not recovered. By late evening, your recovery should be almost complete.
Do not pretend to be sick too often. If you pretend to be sick too often, your parents may not believe you when you really feel bad and need to stay at home.

Part 2
Don't pretend
1. Tell your parents if you get sick. This is the most common reason students drop out. If you really feel bad or think you are getting sick, tell your parents about it and ask them to leave you at home.
  
  Stay home if you survived any shock. For example, if you recently lost a family member, friend, or other person with whom you were close, your grief is a good reason to stay home and not go to school. Be honest with your parents about how much the loss has affected you.
  - If the tragedy befell you, but not your parents, you might think that it will be difficult for them to understand you. Grief is a universal feeling, and most people can put themselves in your place and give you time to survive the loss.
  - However, you should understand that the period of sadness must someday end. Intense sadness can last quite a while, and it can be difficult for you to get out of this situation yourself. If you feel that after a few days to a week you still cannot go to school, you should talk to a psychologist and ask him to help you survive your grief.
2. Be honest if you are bullied at school. If you are the victim of an abuser or group of abusers at school, tell your parents or other close people about it. Explain how difficult your school life has become as a result of bullying, and ask that you be allowed to stay out of school for a day or two until everything settles down.
  
  Ask to skip school. Tell mom and dad that you want to spend a special day with them and let them take time off from work. This plan may work especially if you are about to finish school and go to a higher education institution in another city, or if it will be an easy working day for you and your parents (for example, you do not have any control tasks and your parents do not have urgent tasks at work )
  
  Get permission for a “psychological health” day. It is important to talk with parents about anxiety and stress. Adults often forget how difficult school life is, although, in fact, the level of stress during school is quite high. If you are experiencing the usual stress associated with school, it may be more useful for you to deal with it and go through everything. If stress, anxiety, and depression become more serious problems, tell one of your parents or a psychologist about this and ask for a day without school.
  - If you suspect that you may develop serious mental health problems, such as depression or anxiety disorder, ask your parents to schedule an appointment with your doctor. This can be a signal of the seriousness of your problem for parents, and if you still have some kind of disorder, then going to the doctor will help you monitor your condition.
3. Stay home if weather or natural conditions require it. In the event of a severe storm, flood, or other circumstances that make the road to school dangerous, your school may close for a while. If the weather is dangerous, but the school doesn’t close for some reason, it’s best for you to stay home early.
  - Typically, parents or educators will help you determine how severe the weather is in order to stay at home, so you may not have to convince anyone of anything. If your parents stay at home due to the weather, they will be more willing to leave you at home.
4. Consider other special circumstances. A family vacation or a visit of a distant relative may cause you not to go to school, but you should not miss school for such reasons too often. Compare what you can skip if you go to school and what if you stay at home and discuss with your parents if you should skip school.
  - Note that the school usually does not consider such reasons weighty. If your school is one of these, you should tell your parents about this so that they inform the school that you will not be without an explanation of the reason.
  - Usually, if you know in advance that you will be absent from school, your parent or guardian should write a note that you can bring in a few days. This will give teachers time to prepare assignments for you.
Part 3
Pulling time
1. Specially late. Include some delays in your morning routine, complete your morning routine a few minutes later so you don’t have the opportunity to arrive at school on time.
  - Dress very slowly. Have a good breakfast so you have to change clothes. Dress again ... very slowly.
  - Pretend that you cannot find something you need, for example, one boot or a sports uniform. Find it in the end, but let it take you 5-10 minutes.
  - Loudly complain that you have a bad day; let a tear go if necessary. If you are lucky, the parent will sympathize with you and allow you to stay at home.
  - Understand that your being late also affects others, for example, your parents, who must be at work on time. Recognize that you are putting their work at risk, and decide if the school pass is worth it.
2. Skip the bus. The fact that you miss the bus may be an accident, or it may become a plan. In any case, if you miss the bus, you may not get to school if your parents leave for work early in the morning or if they don’t have time to give you a lift to school.
  
  Lose the thing. You can't go to school without textbooks or a flash drive with homework, right? Search everywhere. The greater the clutter that usually reigns in your home, the easier it will be for you to drag out the time of your searches to be late for school.
  - The smaller the item, the easier it is to “lose” it. For example, it will be difficult for your mother to believe that you have lost your backpack or laptop.
  - The more important the subject, the more plausible your absenteeism will look if you do not find it. The loss of glasses or contact lenses, for example, is more important than the loss of a notebook, as it will affect your learning opportunities throughout the day (and depending on how poor your vision is, it may also affect will you come across things).
  - If you yourself get to school by car, you may lose your keys. However, if this becomes your habit, the consequences may be bad (for example, your parents may not allow you to go to school by car and force you to get there by bus).
Call the school yourself if allowed. In most educational institutions, it is necessary that the student’s parents or guardians call, regardless of their age, but in some schools the student is allowed to make calls.
Get help from a doctor. If you have a long illness, your school may require a doctor’s certificate from you, your parents, guardians, or other family members stating that you are really sick and need time to recover.
- A certificate from a pediatrician or therapist will be required if your illness is delayed beyond a certain time. The exact time may vary depending on the school, so you should look at the school rules to know at what stage the medical certificate becomes mandatory. This time usually varies from 3 to 10 days, 10 days is usually more common.

Warnings

Face the real reason. Ask yourself why you do not want to go to school. If you want to hide from the offender or avoid another serious problem, you should better look for solutions to the problem, and not run away from it. It will make your life happier and healthier in the future.
Do not skip school. Go through all the options your school provides for missing students. If you skip school without a reason or call from your parents, you will be considered truant and you may have serious problems as a result.
Find out what you are missing. In some subjects it will be more difficult for you to catch up with the class than in others. Before you stay at home and not go to school, you should think about how difficult it will be for you to catch up with the class when you return, and also to determine whether the admission to school is worth the effort. This is especially important if you are pretending to be sick or staying home for a reason that is not very important.
Consider the consequences. You can stay at home for a real reason or pretend to be sick if you do not have such a real reason for missing. In any case, skipping one or more school days can complicate your life in the future.

In order to don't go to school, parents need to present serious arguments. Most often they are associated with a state of health, therefore it is precisely on this that the offspring who want to stay at home try to play.

There are many ways to imitate the disease, and although many people have little concern with the moral aspect of such acts, deception is deception, parents are worried and worried. In addition, it is dangerous to slander your health, because even thoughts materialize, let alone a colorfully painted painful condition. Very often, imitations are embodied in real life, and the disease can be obtained the most real. Although, so that some actually seek to get really sick.

To avoid going to school, you can try the following methods:

pretend to be sick, imitating the symptoms of a viral disease, which once had been sick. To keep your cheeks burning, confirming the presence of a cold, you can pat or pinch them (do not forget to repeat the procedure periodically so that your parents do not suspect anything)
you need to talk in the nose, breathing through your mouth, clearing your throat and sniffing in the presence of your parents (or knowing that they are nearby)
complain of sore throat, headache and general tiredness
face and head can be heated with a hairdryer, simulating an elevated body temperature
you can also perform certain manipulations with the thermometer, for example, heat it to a certain temperature by applying it to an incandescent bulb, a hot battery or substituting it under a stream of hot water. Just do not have to be zealous, raising the temperature excessively, otherwise you will also be called an ambulance.
you can go to bed and even limit yourself to food or something tasty, cancel a meeting with friends, they say, so bad. In this case, the disease will look more convincing.
You can develop in front of parents. Refuse to eat dinner or eat some food, saying that your stomach hurts (you can stock up on food in advance, then it’s easier to refuse dinner). You can approach this issue more thoroughly, with nausea and vomiting. To do this, in advance in the bathroom you need to hide the bucket with water and periodically, with appropriate sounds, pour water out of it. The person after leaving the bathroom should also be appropriate.

Ways to temporarily raise your body temperature:

drip one drop of iodine on a piece of refined sugar. may rise to 37.7 0, though not for long - a maximum of one day. Only with iodine you need to behave carefully, suddenly an allergy or poisoning
rub the armpits with ordinary salt or garlic, the temperature after this can rise to 39 0
a stylus from a simple pencil is able to raise the temperature to 38 0, but for three or four hours, and you can get poisoned.

A way to quickly increase blood pressure:

need for 1-2 minutes at a very fast pace (as possible) to clench and unclench your fists. So you can provide a pressure of 140x90 mm, accompanying it with complaints of pain in the back of the head and nausea.

To avoid going to school for a long time, you can:

get cold milk
breathe through your mouth in the cold air
undressed sit in front of an open window in frost

So the temperature will be, and, and you can sit at home for a week, but it's better not to do so.